EDD +1

Yesterday was my due date and I did not have my baby. I went to the midwives yesterday and I am dilated 3cm. She tried the membrane sweep. I'm not sure if that worked or not because I do not know how long it takes to work (if it decides to work at all.) My little due date ticker says to take heart because first babies are on average 8 days late. Nice. How come just about everyone else I know had their babies early? Am I doing something wrong? I mean, I AM a little nervous about giving birth, but isn't everyone? That can't possibly be keeping me from having my baby.